"But its (the Catholic school's) proper function is to create for the school community a special atmosphere animated by the Gospel spirit of freedom and charity, to help youth grow according to the new creatures they were made through baptism as they develop their own personalities, and finally to order the whole of human culture to the news of salvation so that the knowledge the students gradually acquire of the world, life and humanity is illumined by faith."
- Second Vatican Council, 1965, para. 8
Today, at the end of Catholic Schools Week, we celebrate the feast of one of my Catholic educational heroes: St. John Bosco.
As an early career educator, I spent four years in two different Salesian schools. Salesian priests and brothers served at the first; the second school embraced a Salesian charism as a group of lay cooperators.
This spirit has remained with me ever since.
Minister with joy and presence.
Serve those impacted by poverty and marginalization.
Empower others with opportunities to showcase self-discipline while also doing all that you can to proactively prevent potential problems.
Love what students love so that they will love Who I love.
Love forms the basis and method of St. John Bosco’s Preventive System of reason, religion, and loving kindness. Based on the belief that young people can grow in virtue through an approach built upon relational presence, clear expectations, and developmentally appropriate levels of autonomy, the Preventive System forms students not through punitive discipline but rather through relational love.
A noteworthy detail of this pedagogy centers on the fact that this approach - love - entails a system. Far from both rigidity and complacency, the Preventive System balances autonomy with guidance, differentiation of roles with integration of responsibilities, and co-generative collaboration with orchestrated coordination.
In order to navigate the narrow ridge between these differences, clear, consistent, and coherent systems lovingly lead others so that they, and our organizations and world, might flourish.
A trusted colleague of mine would often quip during issues with personnel that offering clear expectations and objective feedback are two of the most loving things leaders can do for others. The Letter to the Hebrews offers a similar message of encouragement: “My son, do not disdain the discipline of the Lord or lose heart when reproved by him; for whom the Lord loves, he disciplines; he scourges every son he acknowledges” (Hebrews 12:5-6).
Navigating this ridgeline between freedom and fixedness provides those whom we lead and serve with guardrails within which they can safely fumble through experiences while also being set up for success. Like a compass, these systems point us to true north while also allowing for flexibility in the path taken to get there.
Systems built by love and for love consider the dignity of the other and, in a spirit of subsidiarity, delegate responsibility appropriately between and among the institutional, local, and individual levels. Loving systems provide space for voices to be heard and tweaks to be made within a framework that provides stability, strength, and security.
These systems of love possess enough strength to stand firm and sufficient space to move, adapt, and change as necessary.
In the Salesian spirit, may we continue to build such systems within our Catholic schools, systems built by and for love.